Sermon: The Freedom of an Unhurried Life

23 02 2012

Last Sunday morning, I shared a message with Sun Grove Church in Elk Grove, CA on the theme of my current writing project for InterVarsity Press. The title is “The Freedom of an Unhurried Life.” You can get a feel for the book in this message. Enjoy…

“The Freedom of an Unhurried Life” – Alan Fadling from Sun Grove Church on Vimeo.

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Popular Posts of January/February 2012

21 02 2012

I continue to make good progress on my first draft of the “Unhurried Time” project for InterVarsity (which means I’ve had less time on the blog). Below are those posts that have been most visited and read over the last 30 days:

  • A Good Retreat Leader” – I shared a great quotation from an old book on retreats by Douglas Steere, Time to Spare. “[He] he is the kind of person who understands and yet is deeply respectful of the hidden life in each one…”
  • Refreshed in God Alone” – A journal excerpt from June 1991 when I was reflecting on Psalm 91: 14-16, “Because he loves me,’ says the LORD, ‘I will rescue him; I will protect him, for he acknowledges my name (14).”
  • Restful or Restless” – A post from May when I was on my way home from the Dominican Republic Journey, I shared some words about how much we struggle with simply being with God.
  • Seeing God in the Fruit of the Spirit” – Late last Summer, I had a moment of insight on a three-day retreat that the fruit of the Spirit are a perfect description of God’s nature and His treatment of us. Why would this so surprise me?
  • Becoming Apprentices of Jesus” – I shared the metaphor of a master mechanic training a novice as a way of thinking about how we make disciples. This was one of my favorite recent posts.

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Conversations Journal Blog: February Guest Post

20 02 2012

This month, I wrote for the Conversations Journey blog about what we learn from children. I shared some thoughts about what I learned in my spiritual direction training about blessing our sons, beginning with when they were small children. I also share the blessings we still give them, even though they are now teens. You can read my guest post at the link below:

Blessing Children

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Book Recommendation: Crafting a Rule of Life

20 02 2012

I remember having dinner with Steve Macchia and Rick Anderson (of Leadership Transformations) a few years back. Steve mentioned a book he was writing on the theme of developing one’s rule of life. I remember thinking then that it was something we really needed. I’m glad to say that it is now available from InterVarsity Press.

I’ve begun reading through and can see that it will be a very practical approach to this spiritual discipline. Since we address this practice on the first retreat of The Journey, I’m looking forward to having this book to help in that process.

If you’ve ever heard about the idea of developing a rule or rhythm of life that is more rooted in Christ and in keeping with how God has uniquely made you, I’d encourage you to check this one out.

(I was sent a paperback version of this workbook, but had already purchased the Kindle version. FYI).

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A Fast From Felt Grace

18 02 2012
An edited journal excerpt from June 1991

In seasons when my seeking of God feels dry or dark, I feel like I’m on a kind of soul fast. I do not have a sense of felt grace that has meant so much to me at other points along the way. Of course grace is always there, but I don’t “feel” graced.

When I have been on an extended food fast in the past, my digestive system went into a kind of hibernation. Because I wasn’t giving it anything to do, it took a break and basically shut down major operations. I wonder if this soul fast is similar in any way. God doesn’t seem to be feeding my mind with inspiring thoughts, or my emotions with comforting, encouraging feelings or my will with stirring directions. Part of me seems to be in a kind of hibernation.

And the early stages of an extended fast are painful and difficult. Toxins that have built up break lose and make their way out of the body. I don’t feel well. This soul fast seems similar. Soul impurities rise to the surface of my thinking and feelings and it feels awful. Maybe God is bringing about a purification.

“Father, this dry place is a hard place for me. Help me to wait as You bring genuine satisfaction to the depths of my inner being. You are the only one I need. The false food I’ve eaten in the past has poisoned my system. Thank You for this process that is refining me. You alone can satisfy me deeply. “Whom have I in heaven but you? And earth has nothing I desire besides you…. But as for me, it is good to be near God (Psalm 73:25, 28).”

Father, You alone are my soul’s desire. It’s true…and I forget it’s true. It is truly good to be near You, even if that isn’t what I’m feeling now. You don’t feel near at all. I believe that You are faithful and true, even when I feel faithless. May Your Spirit bear the fruit of faithfulness within me. Holy Spirit, make me aware of the life of Jesus within me. Help me to glorify the Father in my every choice, thought and action.”

Reflection: How do you respond when your seeking of God does not feel as “graced” as it once did? How might God be near, even if we don’t sense Him?





Fadling Prayer Update: February 2012

18 02 2012

Though some of you may keep posted on our lives and ministry via Facebook, the blog or Twitter, here is what we’ve been up to in life and ministry lately.

As I write, I’m grateful for the rain that is finally falling here in Mission Viejo. We’ve needed it for a long time! I’m going to be as brief as I can be since few of us find it easy to read long emails. Here are some bullets:

  • The “Unhurried” book for InterVarsity Press. As far as writing the first draft (for which I have a June 1 due date), I have six chapters done, one chapter nearly completed, two chapters researched and ready to write up, and three remaining chapters with plenty of material that still needs to be filled out. I feel good about my progress. I’d be grateful for your prayers for my continuing focus and creativity on this project.
  • The Journey – a couple of weeks ago, we launched Generation 20. What a great group of leaders. They come from many ministry backgrounds and locations. And I love the rich unity that comes from such diversity gathered around Jesus.
  • Gem’s health – you’ll remember that Gem had a partial hysterectomy in August. Now, six months later, I have a new wife. Her energy level is off the charts. She is able to workout regularly without running out of gas part way through. We’re grateful, too, for a number of year-end donations that made it possible for us to cover the deductible.
  • The Leadership Institute and our future – The practical realities of the economy is hitting most non-profits, including ours. We are currently working towards the development of a Journey Generation 21 group that will be made up mostly of marketplace leaders who are hungry to go deeper in their own personal spiritual formation, as well as in the transformation of their families and workplaces. They will also be men and women who are able to raise or personally donate $20,000/year over the three years of this Journey. We currently have five who expressed a desire to participate in the April 13-15 discernment retreat. Pray for God’s raising up of this community. We believe it represents both an opportunity to have significant inroads into the transformation of the marketplace, but also a chance to establish and expand TLI going into the future.
  • The blog, Notes from my Unhurried Journey, continues to gain readers. I am also now writing as a monthly guest blogger for the Conversations Journal blog.
  • Church – after a rather long walk in the desert in this regard, we have been part of an exploratory core group for a church that is called The Following. A group of Orange county leaders are meeting biweekly to discern the shape and direction of this fellowship of followers of Jesus. We are aiming at simplicity. I’d be grateful for your prayers as this movement continues to take shape. Gem and I are encouraged to be able to contribute to this community.

Gem and I continue to feel such a deep gratitude for you our friends and partners in this ministry for the spiritual transformation of leaders and their ministries.





Spiritual Direction: The Gift of Dry Places

16 02 2012

An edited journal excerpt from June 1991

In the unfamiliar landscape of the spiritual dry places, I gain insights I couldn’t see in the oasis places. For example, I live in Southern California and we experience seasons of drought. Water is one of things you take for granted until it’s not there. Growing up in lush Northern California, I never remember giving a second thought to having enough water. It wasn’t even on my radar screen of concerns. But in this drought geography, I realize just how valuable water is. In fact, it is the shortage of water that has increased my awareness of its preciousness.

I’ve been reading some of the psalms that speak of thirst for God. My thirst for Him is heightened in this dry place.

Psalm 84:2, “My soul yearns, even faints, for the courts of the LORD; my heart and my flesh cry out for the living God.” I feel the yearning and fainting for God in my soul in extended seasons of spiritual drought. I’m beginning to feel what fainting with desire for God might be like. This desire wasn’t highlighted when I always felt God near or sensed continual refreshment in His presence. How else might God grow this degree of desire in me for Himself?

I also think about my older relatives who have memory of the great depression. They have a life awareness of the value of things that I, having lived most of my life in relative ease, just don’t possess. I am struck by how frugal many older people are who remember difficult days during the depression as children or at wartime. My generation has grown up with as much as we wanted for the most part. The older generation often has a greater appreciation for the value of a dollar than mine does. Father, give me a greater appreciation for genuine spiritual values. Help me to yearn for You and forsake empty worldly pleasures or pursuits.

Finally, I think of what Paul says about contentment: “I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do everything through him who gives me strength (Philippians 4:11-13).” Paul wasn’t content based on having whatever he wanted. He had learned to be satisfied even when he was hungry and living in want. You are teaching this to me in this dry place, Father. You are training me to find my contentment will be in Christ alone, not in favorable circumstances.

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Prayer Begins with God

14 02 2012

A few days ago, I received an old book I purchased online from a used bookstore somewhere in England—E. Herman’s Creative Prayer. (The paperback is easily accessible, but I wanted to find an original hardcover copy). I discovered this book through a number of quotations by Douglas Steere in his writings. I’ve shared from this book in two earlier posts: “Holy Leisure and a Fruitful Life” and “When it Feels Like God is Gone.”

As I’ve begun reading through, I’ve been marking something meaningful on nearly every page. Yesterday, I came across a paragraph on praying that hit me exactly where I find myself in the journey. Below is my personal paraphrase, but I’ll include the word-for-word quotation below:

“Prayer always begins with God. In the same way a small child learns her first prayers from her mother’s lips, the soul learns to pray from God. There is not the slightest desire or inclination to pray that was not first ‘inspoken’ into the heart by the same Spirit Who speaks to the Father on our behalf. We couldn’t pray well unless the Lord of Prayer taught us how, and the only prayers that remain unanswered are the ones He does not inspire. But we so easily refuse to enter into prayer through the waiting room of silence. We refuse to wait patiently, listening for the prayer He is waiting to pray in and through us. The result is that prayer becomes a long, weary, discouraging monologue that grows more and more intolerable as we feel the reality of just how lonely such a monologue really is.”

For Reflection:

  • How much silence do you allow when you set aside moments for prayer?
  • How open do you feel about being quiet in God’s presence? In what ways is this openness leading to practical experiences?
  • How resistant do you feel about being quiet in God’s presence? How would you describe the nature of this resistance (emotional, intellectual, theological)? Talk with God about your thoughts and feelings.

(The original)

“Prayer always begins with God. As the little child learns its first prayers from its mother’s lips, the soul learns to pray from God. There is not a half-formed aspiration or a heavenward impulse that was not first ‘inspoken’ into the heart by the Spirit who maketh intercession for us. We could not pray aright unless the Lord of Prayer taught us, and the only prayers that remain unanswered are the prayers which He does not inspire. But we so often refuse to come to prayer through the antechamber of silence. We will not wait and listen for the prayers He is waiting to pray in and through us. And the result is long, weary, discouraging monologue, which grows intolerable as we become aware of our aloneness.” (E. Herman. Creative Prayer. London: James Clarke & Co., Ltd, 1921, p. 44.)

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Becoming Apprentices of Jesus

12 02 2012
An edited journal excerpt from June 1991

In the church, we have sometimes tended to see discipleship as programmatic rather than as personal. Is this really how it works? How would a master mechanic to train a novice?

Plan A. The master mechanic hands the novice an auto repair manual to read and study. They meet weekly to go through it until they reach the end. Maybe they choose a different model of car to study next time. After studying a number of repair manuals, then the trained novice would go through them with someone else. Would you want these guys working on your car? Probably not.

Plan B. The master mechanic might hand the novice an auto repair manual and tell him to read the chapter on carburetors. He would also tell him to stop by the shop some afternoon when he is working on a carburetor. After this, the master mechanic might suggest that the next carburetor job that comes in be handled by the novice (with the master mechanic looking over his shoulder to help, of course). Finally, the novice would be both ready to repair carburetors on his own, and to teach other novices to do the same. Would you feel better about this trainee working on your car? Probably.

It’s not hard to figure out which method looks more like the way Jesus discipled the Twelve? The gospels say that “He appointed twelve—designating them apostles—that they might be with him and that he might send them out to preach (Mark 3:14, emphasis mine).” They needed to simply be with the Master.

How often are our methods more like sitting down with a younger Christian with a book on discipleship, going through it until we’re finished. Then we assume that this younger Christian is prepared to disciple another.

Jesus’s goal in discipleship was a changed life. His means was instruction and modeling. Often, our goal is the instruction alone, with the modeling and transformation largely assumed. It isn’t that our programs for discipleship are worthless. It is that they must act as servants to the process of building relationships and being transformed in character.

In discipleship programs, there is often too much “knowing about” and not enough “knowing of.” In other words, many discipleship programs produce disciples who know about prayer, about God’s love, about giving and other issues of Christian life. We unknowingly train Christians to be comfortable with a large amount of undigested ideas.

Instead, a discipleship process must be intentional about building relationship with God and His people, as well as about changing one’s life from the inside out. Discipleship must produce Christians who pray, who experience the faithful love of God, and who give sacrificially. Most Christians would agree with this, but might be hard pressed to show measurable and lasting change that takes place in a discipleship process that is program-oriented. Jesus’s method of discipleship was disciple-oriented. His instruction was often related to their specific needs and struggles. Father, give me wisdom to know how to lead others into greater maturity and likeness to Christ.

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Seeing God in the Fruit of the Spirit

7 02 2012

Last summer, I had one of those “duh” spiritual insights as I was reflecting on Galatians 5 and the fruit of the Spirit. What was it? Simply that the fruit of the Spirit are a perfect description of what God is like and how He treats me. Too often, I think of the fruit of the Spirit as a checklist (that I am, as a rule, failing to reach in my life). As I thought about the nine fruit of the Spirit in these terms, this is what I saw:

  • Love – God the Father cares.
  • Joy – God the Father smiles
  • Peace – God the Father is relaxed
  • Patience – God the Father is slow to lose His temper
  • Kindness – God the Father is welcoming
  • Goodness – God the Father does good work and gives good gifts.
  • Faithfulness – God the Father can be counted on.
  • Gentleness – God the Father is very approachable.
  • Self-control – God the Father is safe.

For Reflection: As you reflect on these descriptions of God the Father, which seems to touch you most? Which do you need to remember most at this point in your journey?

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